A Spurgeon-Sized Kindling

The words of Charles Spurgeon always seem to digest well into my soul and stir my affections for the gospel early on in the day. Today, that is especially the case.

Basing his devotional off of Romans 3:26, “just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus,” Spurgeon says regarding God’s justice that “judgment now decides for the sinner instead of against him. Memory looks back upon past sins with deep sorrow for the sin, but yet without dreading any penalty to come; for Christ has paid the debt of His people to the last jot and tittle and received the divine receipt.”

Let’s steep that thought a bit more with this:

“Behold, the LORD’s hand is not shortened, that it cannot save, or his ear dull, that it cannot hear; but your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you so that he does not hear…no one enters suit justly; no one goes to law honestly…Therefore justice is far from us, and righteousness does not overtake us; we hope for light, and behold, darkness, and for brightness, but we walk in gloom. We grope for the wall like the blind; we grope like those who have no eyes; we stumble at noon as in the twilight, among those in full vigor we are like dead men…we hope for justice, but there is none; for salvation, but it is far from us. For our transgressions are multiplied before you, and our sins testify against us; for our transgressions are with us, and we know our iniquities…The LORD saw it, and it displeased him that there was no justice. He saw that there was no man, and wondered that there was no one to intercede; then his own arm brought him salvation, and his righteousness upheld him. He put on righteousness as a breastplate, and a helmet of salvation on his head; he put on garments of vengeance for clothing, and wrapped himself in zeal as a cloak. According to their deeds, so will he repay…And a Redeemer will come to Zion, to those in Jacob who turn from transgression,” declares the LORD.” – Isaiah 59:1-2, 4a, 9-10, 11b-12, 15b-18a, 20

Just as God so radically opposes our radical disposition to sin, he radically makes a way for the impenitent to be united with him through the blood of Jesus. Isaiah’s indictment against the Israelites is the indictment against all of mankind. We are dead men groping in the darkness in midday! However, theres this phenomenal redemption. God, in his good providence, sent the second Person of the Trinity, to die for the unjust, and justify through His blood alone.

God justifies the ungodly.

“For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.” -Romans 5:6

So if you happen to be like me on certain mornings, and it feels like you can conquer the world after your first cup of coffee, your to-do list is totally feasible because you are on your A-game or, if you are also like me at other times when you feel so unable to muster up the motivation to press on gladly, let’s take a second and consider this:

“Therefore, Jesus having taken the place of the believer-having rendered a full equivalent to divine wrath for all that His people ought to have suffered as the result of sin-the believer can shout with glorious triumph, “Who shall bring any charge against God’s elect?” Nor God, for He has justified; not Christ, for He has died, yes has risen again. My hope lives not because I am not a sinner; but because I am a sinner for whom Christ died” – Charles Spurgeon, Morning and Evening,

THERE is where I find my soul’s energy. It’s not the cup of coffee or the checking off of one’s daily to-dos. It’s not even the self-motivation we try and feed ourselves.

It’s solely the justification by faith through Christ.

With this reality, my heart wades in joyous waters.

I can look to this truth in the midst of chaos (because we really aren’t promised a relief from the chaos.) And especially with fall cultivating so much worship in my heart these days, I can look at daily graces with my kiddos and be glad in The Lord that has sent himself to provide the needed sacrifice due for my sin.

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The Fruit of the Spirit

Galatians 5:22

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.”

I’m going to preface life in the Spirit with a term that is one of the most crucial words in my vocabulary, a word my soul must come to grips with and understand regularly:

Depravity.

The definition of the word is simply “moral corruption.” This is the problem with all of mankind. We are bent towards sin, and I mean completely bent, meaning we are unable to un-bend ourselves.

Prior to God saving us, our affections are fixed on self-gain and self-glorification. They are God-belittling and glory-robbing. It is entirely the faith alone in God provided by his glorious grace that we can seek God’s glory instead.

We are in a unique place in history, however. It’s referred to as the already, but not yet. [Refer to this article from Ligonier Ministries for further explanation on this tension.] We have already been saved, but that salvation is not perfected. We still sin and have to deal with that in our lives. We are fighting to kill the sin and pursue holiness for the glory of God.

Our previous pastor, Matt Chandler, used an illustration when we went through the book of Galatians. He said that if the past 48 hours of everything in our hearts and minds were broadcasted before the church, we would probably leave ashamed and unable to return based on the filth within.

Depravity is a foundational understanding of your (my) salvation in Christ. You see, if we are completely corrupt, there’s simply no way we can help ourselves. Someone, The One, has to step in, remove sin, and replace our wretchedness with His righteousness.

Now, a quick overview on the book of Galatians:

I find the reformed doctrine of justification to be the clearest description of what Galatians is all about:

Sola Fide –> /faith alone/

[read J.I. Packer's further explanation of this doctrine here.]

Paul is indicting the Galatians for what they have allowed to creep in.

“I am astonished that you are so quickly deserting him who called you in the grace of Christ and are turning to a different gospel— 7 not that there is another one, but there are some who trouble you and want to distort the gospel of Christ. 8 But even if we or an angel from heaven should preach to you a gospel contrary to the one we preached to you, let him be accursed. 9 As we have said before, so now I say again: If anyone is preaching to you a gospel contrary to the one you received, let him be accursed.” –Galatians 1:6-9

Paul is serious about this. He goes on to call out Peter for succumbing to this distortion of the gospel by bowing to the circumcision party.

Then Paul restates the realities of the gospel and concludes with the theme of our text: the FREEDOM we have in Christ found in chapter 5.

Works of the flesh vs. Fruit of the Spirit

Galatians 5:1

“For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.”

Galatians 5:6

“For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision counts for anything, but only faith working through love.”

Works of the flesh, our vain attempts, keep us bound and found wanting; but the fruit of the Spirit is the produce of our faith in Christ. The first will keep us caged, the later will free us to joy.

It is important to note that it is not the “fruits” of the Spirit but “fruit.” It is holistic. We aren’t failing in love and flourishing in gentleness. That simply doesn’t make sense.

Sisters, when we lose our grip on self-reliance, we will effortlessly experience the fruit of the Spirit, because then it is God at work in us rather than our vain attempts. I am not saying that we are to be lazy in our pursuit of holiness because it’s just supposed to happen. That would be contrary to scripture. God has called us to work…in the Spirit. The difference lies in our affections. When we work outside of the atoning work of Christ, we are laboring for all that will perish. Just as our sin prior to Christ was not premeditated per say, so our bearing fruit will be natural in the God that gives us faith.

How can we flourish in the fruit of the Spirit?

First and foremost, communion with God is essential. Read his word. Talk with Him. Fast. Journal. Look for ways to stir your heart’s affections for the sweetness of the gospel. Let me touch on an area I also believe to be key. I find this to be so essential in our spiritual growth because I have experienced it first hand at our previous church. God also calls us to it.

Community.

We need to be so in each other’s lives that we can help each other grow in holiness. We will be found lacking until the day we die, and that will discourage us. However, we each have our own strengths and weaknesses. Some of us are mothers, others are single, some work in the home, others outside the home, some are in college. We are all so different and live different lives. But we have the one unchanging circumstance in common: The gospel of Jesus Christ! Let’s forget the comparing we so often do with one another, and instead look into each other’s faces and remember that we are all aiming for the same thing: conformity to Christ.

John Piper says the following:

“But the mentality behind the fruit of the Spirit is the mentality of faith depending upon grace. People who bear the fruit of the Spirit know they are worthy only of condemnation. They know that the only pay they can earn is the wrath of God. Therefore, they have turned away from self-reliance and look only to mercy in Christ who “loved us and gave himself for us” (2:20). They do not expect anyone to be their debtor because of their worth. Any satisfaction will be a free gift of grace. They bank on the mercy of God and entrust themselves to his Spirit for help. And out of that mentality of faith depending on grace grows not “works” but “fruit”: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness . . .”

We have been freed to FREEDOM in Christ rather than slavery to sin. There’s so much to boast in and so much encouragement to be had and shared in each other’s lives.

I recommend listening to the followings sermons on this text:

John Piper’s “Walk by the Spirit!”

Matt Chandler’s “Life in the Spirit”

 

Doctrine and Joy

This morning I read a post by Tony Reinke over at Desiring God, and it’s a must-share. I would like to highlight as Mr. Reinke did the words of John Piper on Calvinism and joy because they are not mutually exclusive but rather inclusive. You can read it here.

While I spent a semester at a linguistics institute obtaining my minor in undergrad, we studied the intelligibility of languages. It must be understood that location does not always have a bearing as to the intelligibility of one language in a village/state to the next. There are instances of course where this is the case. Languages within a region may be derived from a mother language and it could be very possible for a person from one village traveling to the next to get by in their own mother tongue without knowing the other. (Susie, if you’re reading this be sure to correct my memory of this concept😉.)

I use this to paint an image of the always intelligible nature of the doctrine of Calvinism and joy. To know TULIP fully and walk in its realities are cisterns filled with living water, deep wells of truth that leave us longing for more satisfying, identifying realities of God in all his glory. There is no part of it that is devoid of God’s intent for his own pleasure and his people sharing in such.

Piper states the following:

We need to rethink our Reformed doctrine of salvation so that every limb and every branch in the tree is coursing with the sap of delight. We need to make plain that [T] total depravity is not just badness, but blindness to beauty and deadness to joy; and [U] unconditional election means that the completeness of our joy in Jesus was planned for us before we ever existed; and that [L] limited atonement is the assurance that indestructible joy in God is infallibly secured for us by the blood of the covenant; and [I] irresistible grace is the commitment and power of God’s love to make sure we don’t hold on to suicidal pleasures, and to set us free by the sovereign power of superior delights; and that the [P] perseverance of the saints is the almighty work of God to keep us, through all affliction and suffering, for an inheritance of pleasures at God’s right hand forever.

I think God is often painted as gruesomely wrathful, as Van Gogh was likely to intend via Tony’s post; however, God is, in fact, operating for supreme pleasures rather than fleeting happiness and his providence is one of immeasurable goodness toward his children.

Why Philippians 2:5-11 Is Changing Motherhood for Me

Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

I have found myself repeating these verses in my mind when the going gets rough and my sweet pea toddler pushes that spoonful of yummy, time-put-into-preparing food out of her mouth and simply says “no thank you” and “I wanna play!” or when my fingers get slammed into the laundry room door as she slides it happily trying to hide.

I find myself contemplating a state of the heart which I considered often in my college days as I was immersed in international gatherings among unbelievers and traveling overseas to share the gospel:

Privilege vs Sacrifice

I could never consider anything I did as a sacrifice necessarily because if God called me to that, a lowly sinner saved by grace, then where is the sacrifice? It’s all gain! And not to mention that it is God at work in us to bring about his good plan rather than anything we can muster up on our own. I found myself always more blessed by others than I was intending to be a blessing to them. I see a similar working in mothering.

I have intentions with my children to empty myself so they can see Christ in all his glory. I want Norah to be well-mannered and able to listen at a young age so that she can have an attentive ear for the gospel. I want to nurture Owen as an infant so that he can feel loved by God later on. Norah’s chanting of the ABC’s stirs in me the hopes of her learning to read in the coming years so that she can see God in the bible for herself and be amazed. However, unlike my summer adventures in China and India (though I did work with small children), it can be a bit easier to fall under the sacrifice category and bemoan my current calling- what a shame to stay in that!

There’s also a self-righteous undertone in boasting in the sacrifice rather than the privilege. It puts us in an upper-hand position rather than the reality. Yes we are called to work heartily in serving the needy, but aren’t we all helpless widows?

And he told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart. He said, “In a certain city there was a judge who neither feared God nor respected man. And there was a widow in that city who kept coming to him and saying, ‘Give me justice against my adversary.’ For a while he refused, but afterward he said to himself, ‘Though I neither fear God nor respect man, yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will give her justice, so that she will not beat me down by her continual coming.'” And the Lord said, “Hear what the unrighteous judge says. And will not God give justice to his elect, who cry to him day and night? Will he delay long over them? I tell you, he will give justice to them speedily. Nevertheless, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?”

Luke 18:1-8 tells of the persistent widow that went to the judge for relief. At this time, a widow with no familial aid was left for dead basically. She wore out the judge in her pleadings. He granted her the relief she sought and he wasn’t even a righteous, God-fearing judge! How much more has God provided relief for his children, sinners in a desperate state, in Christ his Son! Knowing then our state, depraved and unable to fix it (Isaiah 59), once we are changed by grace through faith, what God calls us to in service to him ultimately is not a sacrifice, but a privilege for we have been rescued from the famine. We have been given the bread of life and living water to fill us for eternity. What gluttons we would be to not share it!

There is no sacrifice to serve my children, all privilege. I am not setting aside my desires to have this occupation or that friendship. I am gaining God in my calling. It’s a privilege to know that God sees fit to use child-bearing and rearing to draw me closer to himself. Sitting in college classes such as The Gospel of John or Understanding Islam, I would have never thought God was using such courses to prepare me for where I am now, but he is. The gospel is all I have to lean on throughout the day. God is often my only “real” conversation when my husband may be gone all day for work and then church affairs. And often times, my children and their needs/behaviors are as foreign as all get out, so working internationally and studying other cultures are utilized in my day-to-day.

It all goes back to a renewing of the mind. Day-in and day-out, hour by hour. I am constantly in need of a mind-renewal because there is an emptying needed to take place. Just as Christ emptied himself to the point of death in submission to the Father, so I pray for grace to empty myself into the lives of my children for the glory of God. What a privilege indeed!

I tell many newlywed friends (well, more newlywed than Josh and I that is!) that God gives us marriage and parenting to show us our need for a Savior because these relationships will reveal sin more than any other. John Owen states that we are to kill sin before it kills us. That sounds pretty brutal…well, not so much now when I see how my sin could eat me up as a wife and mother. I must actively work to put it death and repent often, pleading for the mind of Christ “who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant” and there I am consoled, knowing how I it is worth it all to serve the One who came in the flesh to remove my heart of stone and give me a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26.)

Joel 2:13a states, “rend your heart and not your garments” in regards to the posture of the heart in repentance. An inner realization and change rather than an external modification. I find myself in need of repentance more and more these days, and it actually brings me joy rather than discouragement knowing that God is at work in me to sanctify me and conform me into his likeness.

So when I am bent under the kitchen table scraping mushed peas off the ground, I say Philippians 2:5-11 over and over again. When I sit on the couch feeding my newborn while listening to my toddler scream not wanting to go to bed, I say Philippians 2:5-11 over and over again. When I am in the darkened kitchen starting my morning cup of coffee with intentions to dive deep into the bible and then a baby awakens, I say Philippians 2:5-11 over and over again. What has been provided for us through Christ is real and available. It is the only outlet from death. It’s the only answer for truly living. And His Name will sound throughout the heavens and be recognized by all:

Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

It’s a privilege to train up my little ones to know His Name. It’s quite messy, but oh how messy are we in our sin and despair, yet God is so loving to draw us to himself and shed the light of Jesus Christ in our hearts for all eternity!

2 Corinthians 4:6
For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ
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A Supplement for the Soul

It seems like there are so many options these days for healthier ways of life. This drink or that way of cooking, maybe being vegan or simply gluten free. This isn’t a post about which I prefer (though I tried the vegan thing and it was super neat but super time consuming and unrealistic for our family.) Yes and amen to some of those things. They are good when being used for the glory of God in maintaining the bodies he has given us at this time. But this is a post about a supplement we all need. A supplement that will literally save your life. One that stops death in its tracks:

2 Peter 1: 5-11
For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love. For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. For whoever lacks these qualities is so nearsighted that he is blind, having forgotten that he was cleansed from his former sins. Therefore, brothers, be all the more diligent to confirm your calling and election, for if you practice these qualities you will never fall. For in this way there will be richly provided for you an entrance into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

I think if I cared more about my entrance into the kingdom of God as I do my entrance into the grocery store, church, or someone else’s home, my soul would not be in such frantic states at times. We put it on ourselves. We attempt to put the weightiness of glory on things which are unable to carry them.

These virtues listed lead to an increasing glory of God – the very weight of his majesty because they are a result of the faith he has provided for us through his Son. We are not left to ourselves in maintaining these virtues. As believers, we have the hope found in Philippians 2: 13- “for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.”

For his good pleasure.

This post could be taken as a need to white-knuckle it and work harder, but that isn’t the case at all. May it never be! If we are in Christ, we can rest assured knowing that it is in fact God working in us to please himself and in turn bring us the greatest joy. The very obtaining and increasing of these qualities are through further and further reflection on and living in the gospel truth. We were cleansed from our former sins through the blood of Jesus Christ! Being without sin and emptying himself to the point of death on a cross, Jesus inexhaustibly fills the righteousness required to stand before God. That gives us such freedom to flourish, amidst our frequent failings and fleeting hearts, in these qualities knowing that God will not leave us to ourselves because He has already removed our heart of stone and is in the business of making us like Christ himself.

Let’s confirm our calling as elected children of God and supplement our faith with knowledge, self-control, steadfastness, godliness, brotherly affection, and love. When it appears to us on certain days that we are doing all but putting such qualities into practice, run to the promise: it is GOD at work in us, and he will never leave us to ourselves in Christ. We have all we need to be eternally saved.

Ezekiel 36:26-27
And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to obey my rules.

God causes us to walk in his ways. Not our own doings, but his. What a relief to run freely, joyfully, and in obedience in this world making much of God through our callings!

Shell-Gazing in an Ever-Changing World

There are things that we all run to as a means of justifying our emotions, intentions, and aspirations. I want {this} to occur so that I will have {this.} For a believer, those blanks should be ultimately filled with God’s glory with the result of endless joy and satisfaction in Him. However, on the ground level, it can get quite murky. Each of us have been fashioned and wired in such ways so that God may be glorified in all aspects of life throughout his creation. We see this most clearly in his creating of man and woman. Such a complementary division of the human race gives way to roles varying from pastoring to mothering and all that fall in between. But let’s trickle down a bit more.

Womanhood.

A Wife’s Role.

Motherhood.

That’s me. That may be you. Whatever the case, we all have desires within us to use the gifts bestowed on us by our Creator. I enjoy linguistics. Some women like to knit and have a great talent to do so and create masterpieces for the glory of God. I’m a runner. I like to write. Some women actually have professions in both fields. That’s not me and that’s okay because God has called me to other things at this time.

Now to the heart of the issue of which I am using a term coined by John Piper: shell-gazing.

In our endeavors to flourish in the gifts God has given us, it is often the case that created things [namely people] cloud our gaze upon the majesty of Christ and conforming into his likeness. We set our eyes on people, and not only that, but we begin to shell-gaze. The outer coat of our role models seem to be just what we need, and sadly what we think we need to be like. But do we look deeper? Are we asking the hard questions about those that we look to? What attracts us to them? And a good heart check for ourselves: what are we trying to get others to look at us for? Is it gospel-centered or some form of self-glorification? For example, in mothering it is inevitable that comparison to other mothers will occur. There is just something that switches on in a mother’s heart and mind to question if she is doing it right. There will come times when it feels like an emphatic NO especially when compared to another. But that’s just shell-gazing. Not that we should negate every mother out there. They may very well be doing a fantastic job. But comparing and looking at what things appear to be will only bring us heartache and furthered frustration. And not to mention the rapid changes that seem to always occur for mothers out there. Thirty years ago babies were laid down to sleep on their bellies. Now, due to the back-to-sleep movement that is a no-no. I’m sure there will be more research in the next thirty years to show why something being told as right now may not actually be best. And not to mention all the other avenues of insecurities a mother may find herself. Breastfeeding vs. formula, pacifier vs. no pacifier, cloth diapering vs. disposables, jarred baby food vs. homemade, public school vs. homeschooling and the list goes on. {And let me just say this- those things should not be pitted against each other!} You see, we will always feel like we aren’t measuring up by the standards of society, research, and especially other mothers and wives.

But there is but one man to be our standard.

A man marked by sorrow and grief.

A man smitten by God and afflicted.

The God-man, Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory forever.

Truth me told, we don’t measure up to him either. And we never will.

{BUT GOD} being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us,  even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved—  and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus,  so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. {Ephesians 2:4-7}

Jesus Christ is completely adequate because we will not be in the flesh. Jesus Christ is completely sufficient in righteousness because we are all born depraved and in desperate need of saving. Jesus Christ is the only image of perfect love to demonstrate to our spouses and children. Jesus Christ is the only good we should be looking at in others and comparing ourselves. He is the sole valid role model.

The triune God determined that He would send Himself to make a way for the impenitent to come to him, thirsty and in desperation, without hope. To the cross he went bearing sin and making away for his bride to be found in him, clothed in his righteousness. Rising on the third day, sin conquered, and the cage which bears us down prior to salvation shattered by his sufficient blood sacrifice.

Jesus Christ puts an end to shell-gazing because when conforming to his likeness is our aim in our endeavors, we look for him in other women. Those other women we found ourselves comparing ourselves to can then be looked upon as fellow heirs of Christ, our very sisters in the fight for holiness and joy. What a weight to be lifted off our shoulders and what gladness to walk in knowing that we don’t have to pride ourselves on how we are trying to measure up. Instead, we can speak openly of our weaknesses knowing the truth of 2 Corinthians 12:9-10:

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

I know fixing my eyes on Christ will never be shell-gazing. He is the real deal. There is nothing but increasing glory as I dig deeper into who he is. We are unable to say this about any other human being. Some bulbs that I planted earlier this year have been a perfect illustration for my heart to further comprehend this reality.

East Texas weather has brought these little bulbs to 3 ft high yellow/red beauties! Norah and I have especially loved watering them. As I would dash out the door for my afternoon runs when Josh got home to stay inside with the babies, these flowers inaugurated such worship in my heart as I started one of my favorite hobbies. However this past week, the rain completely pummeled them!

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If I set my hope in the definiteness that these flowers would be there everyday to make Norah and I happy, then I would obviously find myself wanting [especially with Texas weather-need I say more!?]

The brevity of life is worth considering on a regular basis because it serves as a reminder of eternity. To follow the instruction found in the first 3 verses of Colossians 3 and “seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God” and “set your minds on the things that are on earth” will do my soul well and save from the damage of doing otherwise.

Not to mention our inability to predict or align our circumstances – I can confirm that a schedule is great and a gift from God for children. My two-year-old- and nearly two-month-old operate best with a routine, especially since I thrive with consistency and order. However, I can say that this and that should occur at 9:30 and then again at 3:30 but it is no guarantee. If I allowed the frequent collapses of our routine to ruin my days then mothering would be a drudgery rather than a joy. Let’s look into marriage for a second. If Josh and I put our hope in our ten year plan and when that didn’t come to pass then our marriage shattered, we surely would not have our hope set on an infinitely sovereign Lord.

Circumstances cannot determine where we place our hope.

The gospel of Jesus Christ alone defines our hope.

I will turn to this and state this to others until I’m blue in the face because I know it to be true and God’s word declares it. Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and forever. Not my circumstances and surely not my emotions. I will be torn by the desires and temptations of the flesh to shell-gaze. I will want to take what looks good and follow it, even if it is less than Christ. However, when I do, I know I cannot wallow in it for too long if I hold fast to this truth and never dismiss it.

Stop the shell-gazing. Look to Christ and find deep waters to dive in and always be overwhelmed with increasing realities of God’s love for his Son and for us as his elected Bride. It is full of the nutrients our soul needs and truly longs for if we are in Christ.

The Loss of a Child and Satisfaction in Christ

After reading this blog post from Desiring God (http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/brooklyn-s-bridge), I am left with sadness and joy. Sadness in that Josh and I can understand to some degree (though not completely) the pain as we had a miscarriage prior to Norah; however, to have a life lived for any amount of time and then have to part with your baby is truly incomprehendable to me. Joy in that this couple has been a window for the gospel of Christ. How the chills spread across my arms as I think about the grace and love of the gospel being sufficient for these parents to continue to live in hope in the midst of great sorrow. That is what Paul meant by “suffering yet always rejoicing.” True pain marks their lives and God saw fit for a precious gift to be with them for a short time, yet the Gospel of Jesus Christ is how they will continue. Prayers for this sweet mother and father as I am reminded of the brevity of life and considering future grace.